Dear Universe

Dear Universe;

Today it has been raining outside, and raining a little bit in. But that’s ok. Some days it just DOES.

My name is Meagan and its been 55 days since I last blogged. It doesn’t seem that long, in fact it all seems to have gone in the blink of an eye. But my gosh, you know and I know, ALL THE THINGS have happened. ALL.

Universe, I trust you so hard right now, I’m trusting you with a lot, and essentially, this is what is helping me through the days. I know there must be some pretty awesome things lined up for me, for me to seek out, strive for and take with both hands. There will be bumps in the road and I know I will sometimes stumble, but I WILL get up and I will get my happy ending.

I have consciously and subconsciously asked you for so.many.things in the past few months and you have just shone and have granted me with some pretty wonderful things.

With the GRACE I promised myself at the start of the year and with my complete trust in YOU, it’s why I am still getting on, still moving forward.

Love is endless if you know where to look and I am just overflowing right now.

I am really looking forward to my next chapter

So, thanks.

Muchas gracias – Me.

Some times it’s just so much easier to give up, isn’t it? Some days just feel like they are going to end in a heap before you have even taken your second conscious breath. We all feel like this at some stage, I am so sure of it.
Thing is, we are only betraying ourselves if we don’t get up, if we don’t even try.

I’ve done SO much soul searching the past few months and I have listened to myself completely, for the first time in a long time, and I have learnt a lot about myself and my self worth. I’ve been really kind to myself, which sometimes I struggle with, but I am my own best friend as well as my own worst enemy, previously I’ve tended to lean towards enemy, but I’ve given her a shove off.

And you know what, I choose happiness.. and cake. Always cake.

I think I’ve written about this before (I just re read it and am still in LOVE with the Buddhist mind sets that I listed), but I believe life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. It’s just a much nicer way of looking at things and really it’s just so true.

Shit will happen, shit is always going to happen, majority of it will be completely out of our control; but its how we react to it that defines everything else. That’s a massive choice which is always in our own hands. Pretty cool hey!

Emotions are so important too and important enough not to be stuffed down in our socks to only have them erupt in the most awkward of circumstances, but, going blow out crazy is not an option, well not for me. Crying is great, but wallowing for days on end, no thanks. I have so many better things to be focussing my emotions and energy on…

…. I’m starting up my own lil micro business, so stay tuned for more details on that. I am so lucky I have the support of family and friends on this one and I just really LOVE what I am doing and who knows what will happen with it, but I’m pretty content with it at the moment. It’s giving me something to put my heart into and it’s also really relaxing, WIN WIN!

I’ve also started personal training which was a massive decision for me, but one that I know I had to take, just for some all round healthiness; mind, body and soul. The ole’ universe through that one at me as it knew I needed it and sent me a pretty cool cat to help me out. Honestly, forever grateful.

The past two months I haven’t been blogging but I’ve still been around, reading, commenting, and just feeling the love that’s floating around in the airwaves. I am so lucky to be a part of a huge loving community, you are all just peaches. Keep on keeping on!

~Linking in with Jess, it has been quite some time, share the love~

March 26, 2013 - 8:25 am

Kevin - ” life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it… if more people understood this, I think every nearly every workplace conflict would disappear over night.

March 26, 2013 - 8:56 am

Me - Oh M – it is so good to see you back. You sound like you are so positive and have a great attitude for moving forward.
Wishing you every success in your new business – if there is anything I can do to help – please don’t hesitate to give me a shout.
I am working so hard at being kind to myself – sometimes I get it right and sometimes I don’t – but all we can ask of ourselves is that we keep trying.
Love, hugs and positive energy !

March 26, 2013 - 9:13 am

Lyndal - I love you lady
ps your parcel is coming

March 26, 2013 - 9:37 am

Cider In The Sun - Kevin – I think you are right, I think SO MANY THINGS would go better if people understood this!! :))

March 26, 2013 - 9:38 am

Cider In The Sun - Thanks L- being kind to ourselves isn’t easy but so worth it to continue to try!! Xx

March 26, 2013 - 9:38 am

Cider In The Sun - Delly – love you too little lady xx

March 26, 2013 - 10:23 am

Aroha @ Colours of Sunset - Sounds like it’s been a crazy few months. You are sounding very positive and like you’re on the right path, so I am happy for you and you have my complete support along the way, too! Welcome back to blogging, hope you’ll stay for a while 😉 xo

March 26, 2013 - 12:07 pm

[email protected] - What a fabulous attitude you have! When stuff is happening, it’s all too easy to just give up, so good on you for looking for the positives.
Good luck with your business, looking forward to seeing all the details. x

March 26, 2013 - 1:46 pm

Emily @ Have a laugh on me - I think I was meant to read this post today, this morning I got a rather nasty text from a ‘friend’ and so far I haven’t reacted, but I will think wait to react. All the best for the mini business, sounds interesting! Look forward to reading more! Emily 🙂

March 26, 2013 - 2:41 pm

Dannielle - this year has already been a big year, and it’s going to be bigger and better for you. I can just feel it. there are amazing things coming and i want to give you a big hug for being awesome! See you soon-ish!

March 26, 2013 - 2:53 pm

[email protected] - Welcome back! I’m pretty bad at being kind to myself – it’s great to read about your positivity, and so true that life is 90% how we react to things. I need to adjust my mindset. Good luck with the business – hope this year brings you great things x

March 26, 2013 - 3:08 pm

Becc - What a lovely post. I too have been putting it out there to the universe a lot of late. I have had a lot to be grateful for and a lot where I think I need to speak louder!
I’m choosing to look past the now and hope to continue my positive stance on things.
Becc @ Take Charge Now

March 26, 2013 - 3:51 pm

Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit - I am a very big believer that we create our lives not necessarily through being able to design our circumstances but how we react to them. (although there are many circumstances we can create.)
So yeah, I choose happiness too!
And yes, the universe is an amazing thing if we are willing to work with it rather than against it.
For someone that blogs every single day, a break for 55 days would be an absolute eternity for me.
Pleased to meet you and welcome back!
Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit

March 26, 2013 - 3:56 pm

EssentiallyJess - It takes incredible strength to just keep going when life is tough, or to hope for something better.
Excited to hear more about your business!!!

March 26, 2013 - 7:13 pm

Mrs Holsby - Welcome back….just keep trusting. There is a plan for you, my dear, and it is bigger than you know.
Trust, and keep putting one foot in front of the other.
And smile.
And eat cake.

March 27, 2013 - 12:06 am

BossyMummy - Sounds like things are moving forward for you. Good luck with your new business and your journey towards a new you

Hello from #teamIBOT

March 27, 2013 - 2:48 pm

Jo - I like this xo

March 28, 2013 - 4:32 pm

Cider In The Sun - Aroha – thankyou for your sweet response, im happy to be back xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:33 pm

Cider In The Sun - Lisa – Thankyou! I cant wait to tell you about my lil biz!! X

March 28, 2013 - 4:34 pm

Cider In The Sun - Emily – Im glad my post assisted you and i rellt hopw tou have sorted things out with your ‘friend’ xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:41 pm

Cider In The Sun - Dannielle – I cant wait to gove you a huge huge hug when you get back! Weve both been thru so much and it will be so great to re group xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:43 pm

Cider In The Sun - Kim – Thank you! And no, its not the easiest to adjust ones mindset but i guarentee it feels so much better when you get there! Xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:43 pm

Cider In The Sun - Becc – yay for speaking out to the universe! X

March 28, 2013 - 4:46 pm

Cider In The Sun - Leanne – im hoping to not have a 55 day hiatus again!! Positiveness breeds positivity.. We do our best and like you said, work with the universe and it will shower you with your desires!! Xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:47 pm

Cider In The Sun - Jess – it used to not come so naturally, but, now i just feel like this is where im meant to be! Xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:48 pm

Cider In The Sun - Mrs Holsby – i love everything youve written here. Thank you. Xx

March 28, 2013 - 4:49 pm

Cider In The Sun - Bossy – Thank you x

March 28, 2013 - 4:50 pm

Cider In The Sun - Jo – i like YOU xx

April 3, 2013 - 11:28 am

Kelly HTandT - So glad to see you back honey. Them some profound words right there! Loving your positivity, it’s so inspiring 🙂
All the best with your micro business venture… intriguing!

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