Negativity rules …. way too often.
So much lately, I find myself wondering what the actual flip is going on in some people’s minds.
It seems that negativity is on the rise and I am left sitting here wondering WHY?!
Why is it that people get so caught up focusing on the negative in absolutely everything, and then they proceed to constantly talk about it and post facebook statuses about it, and tweet about it, and rinse and repeat.
What I don’t think these serial offenders realise is this:
If you constantly surround your mind and your being with negative words and negative actions and in turn reactions, you are validating it all in your own world and giving it space to BREED. The vicious cycle will never end once you cross that line and it will be very difficult to get out of the rut that’s been created.
It’s not always possible to see the positive in crap situations, and gosh, don’t think I am fool enough to think there is always a grand positive all the time. But what there IS, in most every situation that’s faced, is this:
A chance to learn, a chance to fight for something, stand for something, a chance to GROW, to strive, a chance to move forward..
People need to promote what they love instead of bashing what they hate.
We (in Australia) are in a very fortunate country, and it seems we are forgetting about this more and more and really focusing on the smaller, petty things, that essentially, don’t even rate on the scale of 1 – serious.
I’m not a ray of sunshine, every.single.day. And I don’t ever pretend I am. But I do know this;
I make it my daily mission to TRY and see the good in everything, to see the light at the end of the tunnel, to accept what I can and can’t do… to refrain from saying negative things and to THINK before reacting.. It hasn’t always been this way and it is something I have worked on for a while and now in turn, it is just second nature.
We have choices, and we have the grand liberty of being able to think and feel what we want… However, if people could just see how much better life would be for themselves and those around if the negativity was lifted, then I’d be one happy camper and so would they!
Negativity; it’s a beast, a fire breathing dragon and it will be happy to suck you in and chew you up, and spit you out and go again.
Be strong, power through, choose the positivity, at least try it on, walk around and let that wash over you for a while.
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